Trust and power exchange can be exciting. It's also fun sometimes to just flail as hard as you can without worrying about damaging anything/anyone, especially during orgasm, you can really just let go. All of this can lead to endorphines, oxytocin, etc. I find it aesthetically and technically pleasing to do the tying, and it makes a good foreplay activity. I enjoy controlling my partner's pleasure. It's not necessarily sexual for some people, but it is an intimate experience.
You're not into BDSM. You're into BHAG (Better Homes & Gardens). It's a valid lifestyle choice and there's no reason to feel any kind of shame about who you are now.
The ropes are tied over her boots, so they’ll spread the weight. Suspensions aren’t a long time thing either. The key is to get the person untied before anything goes wrong, and a LOT of study, education, practice and communication goes into mitigating risks and harm.
*Ideally* a lot of study, etc, etc... hopefully, the casual viewer doesn't see this kind of thing and immediately try it with the paracord they have on hand...
My only detriment for this mainly is my right shoulder. I partially tore my rotator tendon a while back, which apparently is designed to never heal, and despite being 6 months later with stretches and usage still the thought of my shoulder being tied back like that makes my eye twitch in a bad way. I don't know how to help it heal more, or better. I hope it doesn't need surgery.
One would hope she's experienced if she's doing suspension. Rope suspension is high risk and both people involved need to know what they're doing and what danger signs to look out for.
As for the discomfort - endorphins are a hell of a drug.
Ideally the weight is spread evenly over the chest harness ropes, the rigger has tied over ten thousand of them and the model can communicate well. The video here shows all of that in action. You’d see her moving uncomfortably if it wasn’t, and she’s not.
I'm down with people being into whatever they are into, but I would be terrified that the person who tied me up like this would have a cardiac episode or something and lay there dying and I'd be stuck there until possibly I starved to death or someone came to check on me because i didn't show up for work for a week.
Fortunately, starvation can take more than a month to kill you, so you have plenty of time there to be found. Unfortunately, you would be dead from dehydration long before that, because dying of thirst takes sometimes just 3 - 10 days (may be more or even less depending on factors like ambient temperature, physical activity etc)
Ah, I misread that part as you having the heart attack while being bound.
But I still think that's not really something you worry that often unless there's an actual health issue, and then just don't do it maybe? And that risk also kinda goes for a lot of stuff where a heart attack could kill you, bus driver, airplane pilot, etc.
No, but i think this sounds like busting in 39 seconds should be shameful. And it isn't. That's a compliment. Now bring out the toys and make her forget her name.
247Lurker
TheGokki
GemsAreOutrageousTrulyTrulyTrulyOutrageous
...Stiletto heels were made for gripping, weren't they? <_<
IAmThaMuffinMan
Where can i get that roof attachment? Asking for a friend...
Se7entwo
I gotta say... I love the hardwood floor and I'm not upset about the gray wall, not to mention the symmetry of the outlets. 10/10, no notes.
realbluesofa
TrashPandaAddict
How... have I never seen this reaction image?! Phenomenal.
ThisGuyHere
Also available in gif!
realbluesofa
+5 for you!
2fligh2high
PapaSez
Geez, pretty sure the shoes I'm wearing are older than that young lady.
IliveIdyeIliveagain
I clicked this post by accident I swear 🙏
youbetchamom
I'm so sorry, but could someone please explain the desire to be tied up like this?
neptix
Trust and power exchange can be exciting. It's also fun sometimes to just flail as hard as you can without worrying about damaging anything/anyone, especially during orgasm, you can really just let go. All of this can lead to endorphines, oxytocin, etc. I find it aesthetically and technically pleasing to do the tying, and it makes a good foreplay activity. I enjoy controlling my partner's pleasure. It's not necessarily sexual for some people, but it is an intimate experience.
ARrocks
That is one well placed zipper.
ironymus
NinjaClyde
ironymus
imakeeper
So she can go potty!
FragileDonkey
DanKrog
Mexicanity
I don’t know what this says about me but the first thought that crossed my mind after landing here was “oh! That’s a nice floor”
chipjack
You're not into BDSM. You're into BHAG (Better Homes & Gardens). It's a valid lifestyle choice and there's no reason to feel any kind of shame about who you are now.
WhatTheFrog
Unless shame is your kink, of course!
TurnsOut42WasASlightMiscalculation
That looks fun!
J3lek
GreenJayBird
Oh, it's not new
samanthadlcruz
Clayman8
ART.
Absolute Art.
snova595
Wouldn’t her circulation get cut off to her legs after a while? Seems dangerous, should she probably see a fireman/doctor/teacher
hoopsnek
The ropes are tied over her boots, so they’ll spread the weight. Suspensions aren’t a long time thing either. The key is to get the person untied before anything goes wrong, and a LOT of study, education, practice and communication goes into mitigating risks and harm.
tsooji
*Ideally* a lot of study, etc, etc... hopefully, the casual viewer doesn't see this kind of thing and immediately try it with the paracord they have on hand...
immabearrawr
How much for this escape room?
akafluffy
Escape?
Bunhyung
Oooh, Kiñkata.
Maultasche
WoopDeFrickenDoo
sigh *unzips*
SoludisSnake
No sigh *unzips*
MissMeaniePie
Don't you just hate when other people live your dream? 😅
TrumpGarglesHorseSemen
My only detriment for this mainly is my right shoulder. I partially tore my rotator tendon a while back, which apparently is designed to never heal, and despite being 6 months later with stretches and usage still the thought of my shoulder being tied back like that makes my eye twitch in a bad way. I don't know how to help it heal more, or better. I hope it doesn't need surgery.
iLoveItWhenMyFingersSmellLikePussy
Not my dream, but I definitely know what you're saying.. I just want a regular sex life lol 😥
doctorId
You know, imgur turned into a hardcore furry BDSM site so gradually I didn't even notice.
4sambucas
yeah I remember we used to make fun of furries, back when tumblr was a thing
SaladinIskander
You only need to mute like... two people and the furry stuff is usually gone.
TheLeanWolf
That must be way more uncomfortable than she makes it look.. clearly not her first ropeo..
jiankui
One would hope she's experienced if she's doing suspension. Rope suspension is high risk and both people involved need to know what they're doing and what danger signs to look out for.
As for the discomfort - endorphins are a hell of a drug.
hoopsnek
onlyhalfghost
really needs another rope somewhere around the hips for better weight distribution
Huntergirl727
NGL, that rope right under her boobs would get very sore very quickly. It's doing the majority of the weigh-bearing and it's on her ribs.
hoopsnek
Ideally the weight is spread evenly over the chest harness ropes, the rigger has tied over ten thousand of them and the model can communicate well. The video here shows all of that in action. You’d see her moving uncomfortably if it wasn’t, and she’s not.
TomBrokaw
So her motions at about 0:26 in are, uh, NOT discomfort?
WhatsUnderMyKilt
This is when you tie a hibachi up to the right spot and go and play video games.
onlyhalfghost
no, you don't *go*, you do that right beside your sub. More fun to tease them mid-neglect and it's safer too.
Seras91
Easy enough: have your gaming rig in the same room.
chipjack
Hitachi. Hibachi makes grills. Please tell me you didn't mean hibachi?
WhatsUnderMyKilt
Hitachi* like the magic wand. I dunno why my phone decided i was trying to cook someone
karcain
hibachi is fine, its right spot is with a well ventilated kitchen. Who doesnt like snacks when theyre hanging out with friends
ChelVanin
Aww, she looks so happy!
NowhereMan313
Honestly, sexytimes aside, that does kinda look like fun.
ChelVanin
I loved swinging when I was a kid
SmoeAhsolse
Pretty twisty.
Huntergirl727
Make sure you hang it from a load-bearing beam...
TheCriticsWereConciseItOnlyTookFourLines
And if you don't, try not to hang it over a load-bearing beam
RogueFerret
https://imgur.com/Cbo0fuA
Shpielers
Have you been sitting on that for all 10 years just waiting for this moment?
SofaH3ro
Few drywall screws should do it /s
ChelVanin
Oh its load-bearing alright.
SneakyTrojan
I mean, someone is gonna bear this load
BenderRodriguezz
Heck yeah, well placed joists ftw
Hexarcy00
Good job, you got the joke
ChelVanin
nopo
I get that people like being like that, and ive had why explained to me before, but i just dont get it.
SmashedYourGlasses
She's not doing it for her enjoyment.
nopo
Yes she is. She is very clearly enjoying it quite a bit.
SmashedYourGlasses
I mean some people like to make others happy.
nopo
She can be doing it for both reasons.
SomebodyalreadytookMyPants
I'm down with people being into whatever they are into, but I would be terrified that the person who tied me up like this would have a cardiac episode or something and lay there dying and I'd be stuck there until possibly I starved to death or someone came to check on me because i didn't show up for work for a week.
AncientTerror
There are locks with a timer. Could provide more safety, just in case.
mrose50
Meh, that's just some next level Abandonment Play.
SimSimSimsalabim
Fortunately, starvation can take more than a month to kill you, so you have plenty of time there to be found. Unfortunately, you would be dead from dehydration long before that, because dying of thirst takes sometimes just 3 - 10 days (may be more or even less depending on factors like ambient temperature, physical activity etc)
Orella
With all the drooling, I'd assume it'd be on the low end of the estimate for dehydration.
SimSimSimsalabim
With a gag like this maybe even shorter than 3 days.
NachoPete
I'm writing down that awesome practical joke idea for later.
alsoAzrael
The only thing worse than starving to death would be not starving to death because the lady next door found you :D
RelartOfGivia
You would die of dehydration LOOONG before starvation
Radix865
That's why you only this stuff with a person you really do trust.
MountainPsycho
Whelp…scratch this activity off the list for me then
ShitIstoleFrom4chan
Because a person you really do trust won't have a cardiac episode??
WhatTheFrog
Trust is stronger than cardiac arrest, it's well documented.
labyrinthconvention
I hate it when work team building does trust cardiac arrest.
Radix865
Ah, I misread that part as you having the heart attack while being bound.
But I still think that's not really something you worry that often unless there's an actual health issue, and then just don't do it maybe? And that risk also kinda goes for a lot of stuff where a heart attack could kill you, bus driver, airplane pilot, etc.
BeardicPerformance
Airline pilots famously have a second person there in case something happens to them.
so1oeclipse
That was like the whole comment
monsted
You're describing the plot of Stephen King's "Gerald's Game" :)
bigfatmadcowmoo
Such a good book so disturbing
DollyPartonsLeftBoob
A fellow person of culture, I see.
WillemHellfire
I can't bring myself to watch or read it.
mikenco
I just ordered the book based on your comment. I enjoyed King's "Misery".
78927x4No1
It's also a movie. :)
apophisismydad
Both of them are.
mikenco
As always, the Misery movie didn't touch the book for suspense and drama.
Livetinydienever
Or busts in 39 seconds and has to spend 4 hrs getting them undone
InkGoat
Both of those situations can be prevented by doing this as part of a group!
captainswoopty
I thought we weren’t kink shaming?
Livetinydienever
Is busting in 39 seconds the kink?
ExquisiteConundrum
No, but i think this sounds like busting in 39 seconds should be shameful. And it isn't. That's a compliment. Now bring out the toys and make her forget her name.
Quasi5
https://imgur.com/7dSVTI4