We must move forward, despite everything.

Nov 6, 2024 1:23 PM

greenytali

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There is gonna be a lot of people who need help.

https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ - LGBTQ+ Crisis intervention.

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Okay…. I see good cops being pushed out of the force for not protecting bastards. I see good teachers leaving their profession from a lack of support. I see good doctors being threatened with death and chased out of states for providing women healthcare. And I see good leaders losing elections to deplorable human beings.

The helpers are being beaten out of helping people.

8 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I've been helping for a long time and I'm getting really tired and frustrated.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

or, you know, fight. The other side would.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nobody is fighting for us. Nobody ever helped us. It's over for us.

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Now the only helpers are helping to ruin the country

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

I never watched Fred Rogers as a kid - I guess I always found it boring because I had an older brother who was showing me Transformers and what not so I always found it boring. But as an adult, knowing what he was now - The world needs Fred Rogers or people like him more than ever - but we don't have him - You must be that person. We must all strive to be strong, kind and compassionate like Fred Rogers. That is how we honor him and ensure he is remembered.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Organize, support, resist.

8 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

I voted blue across the ballot but I’m done being a helper. America gets what it gets. I’ve stopped all charitable giving and I might stop tipping at some places. I’m watching out for me and my family now.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Naive optimism in the face of fascistic power rising will not do anything.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I already spent the last year taking in a friend who was at a rough time in their life. They're reliant on what little government medical support they can get, and their sister is a diabetic single mother in similar shape.

I'm not sure they'll survive if the ACA is gutted, and with the red sweep, it seems very likely it will be. That 1 year old kid is going to be an orphan.

8 months ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 1

The upcoming state of healthcare terrifies me. An entire suite of people at the helm who straight up don't believe Long Covid is a thing, that disabled people need more support, that maybe people who depend on things like insulin should be able to get them easily and cheaply? People that don't believe things are real until they happen to them? My partner could die in the next few years if money is pulled from healthcare support and research. It's not hyperbole; it's reality for many.

8 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I wish it need not have happened in my time...and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.

8 months ago | Likes 88 Dislikes 0

8 months ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

I just set up on https://couchers.org because Couch Surfing still has a paywall. I may not be able to host, but I'm here, can try to help coordinate with what little time I can spare, and can teach/practice archery if anyone needs.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thank you, @OP. I needed this reminder, today.

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh, please, this gets trotted out every time we take another hit to democracy. We don't need to be looking for the helpers... They don't exist. We need to BECOME the helpers now. Waiting around for others to do it for us hasn't done squat.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Be an advocate when you can, an ally when you can't, and above all be kind

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I woke up devastated. I wanted to call some one for help but there was no one who wasn't going through the same thing.
I am also the one people call when they need help.
The helpers aren't OK either. This is far from ever being on.

8 months ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 3

Thank all the people who have helped you be able to face today and you still being here. Reach out to anyone and everyone to see how they are doing. Let this be the reason to ask if they need help. Sometimes the best thing to do to help yourself is to help others.
What we do in the face of defeat is carry on and help and fight where we can.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Then it's time for the helpers to help each other.

8 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As a straight white male, I was devastated this morning as well. I have a daughter and women in my life I care about. Plenty of lgbtq friends that will now be demonized. It’s truly sad but I will protect any and all

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I am so disappointed in our country. Shame on you America.

8 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Fuck that. The world will begin the backward movement now that fascism has been relegitimized…

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There is no one helping now this is the time of monsters.....

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Arm yourselves, it might not be soon but we're entering the death spiral of fascism. I for one will not go quietly into that dark night. I will not let friends and family be taken from me simply because of thier skin color or orientation. Be safe everyone, and I hope your all still around in the coming years.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I am so worried about people who will be targeted.

8 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Yes. Our lives don't matter.

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Same, I know I probably won’t be since I’m a white strait cis male but I fear for all the kind people who oppose evil it will not be safe to be anything but a bootlicker and frankly I don’t know if I have the courage to become opposition. I fear I’m having to decide whether to kill myself or just hiel trump with the rest of my kind to fit in.

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

They will kill us long before you have to become opposition, don't worry.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The helpers will be silenced. I hope for orange's death. It's so sad for me to think like this, but it's him or millions of others. He's almost 80 with a terrible diet.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Take a deep breath and organise. You fight back, first time every time. First time you see a harassed trans person or deported Hispanic you organise and protest. If they want to start putting you in camps too you make sure they haven't got one big enough. You are only governed by your own consent.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Protests don’t do shit. But otherwise I agree.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

They cost time and resources and are a pain in the arse to deal with. Suffragettes and MLK don't agree protests do nothing.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

We couldn't even convince people to boycott one video game to show support against a billionaire who is funneling money into hate groups and advocating against our human rights.

No one is going to save trans people. Our lives don't matter.

Most people voted for trump strictly because of this the same reason they bought the game.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I haven't seen the numbers but I'm willing to bet trump lost the popular vote for the third time. Most people dont want what he offers.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just came to see everyone cry for no reason. Realistically nothing is changing nor was it ever going to change with Her winning. We already had him for 4 yrs and it didn't turn into nazy germany. It's the same day as yesterday so stop whining.

8 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 12

My human rights have been used as a political tool and the majority of people have agreed that my human rights must be denied.

8 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It's a nice sentiment. But it's not going to be enough, is it? They control the government. They will never relinquish control. T**** cannot be prosecuted for anything he's going to do in the next 4 years. "Look for the helpers"? They're going to be deported or sent to camps.

8 months ago | Likes 73 Dislikes 3

This feels like just the beginning, not the end . Panicking and scattering and submitting to despair is exactly what the magats want us to do. I’m more motivated than before to fight and resist them. Why not? I don’t have a lot to lose and at the very least, it will make me a better person.

8 months ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

Then gun the FUCK up and get ready to fight in PACKS. You see a group show up to 'remove' a minority family, call a swarm and shoot every fucking goose stepping fuckwad. and string them up. Let them know we aren't going to WAIT to fight back.

8 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

This is the way.

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Then you KEEP LOOKING. There are *ALWAYS* people who are helping.

It's going to be rough. Rougher than we've had in a very long time. But people will still be doing good. They are there, and we have to hold to that! And we should all be as much a part of it as we are able; sometimes, the helper you're looking for is in the mirror. Help people, and they will remember it.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I understand that feeling, it also didn't stop the underground railroad who helped those enslave, legalility never stopped anything, drug won the war on drugs,

8 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Honestly he may not survive his full term he's old and obviously doesn't take care of himself. Vance may or not be worse I don't know enough about him.

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Vance will basically mean Project 2025, live and in color. The Heritage Foundation will be running the country.

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He survived Covid, so I'm not banking on his health being a deciding factor... and anyway, this is far, far bigger than T****...

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If you'd like to talk my pm's are open. I hope your day is full of joy!

8 months ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

All we can do is hope for his death. Guy is almost 80 with a terrible diet. If I was religious I would pray every half hour for it. It's sad for me to think like this, but this thing deserves death or he'll be the death of millions.

8 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Then we get Vance as prez which is arguably worse.

8 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Millions will die even if he dies first. T**** is terrible but he's not acting alone; he has simply been the mouthpiece of the GOP's plans to poison the system. They don't care if he dies. They have all the power they need now.

8 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

This is fucking true. FUCK! This country are full of fucking brain rotted idiots. Just look at some vids of trump supporters being talked to. These people shouldn't be allowed out of their home, let alone vote.

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This morning I said to my wife the only thing we can do now is be kind to the people who need kindness and try to help the people who need help, the same as yesterday.

8 months ago | Likes 224 Dislikes 2

Thank you. I honestly needed to read something like that. The bad guys may have oversight, but our communities and good neighbors are still strong. We just have to do what we can for each other

8 months ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

We as a nation voted, and this is the result. It's not the result I'd hoped for, for sure, but now all that's left to us is to be better friends, coworkers, neighbors, and community members. Help where you can, be as kind as you can, but be kind to yourself first of all.

8 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Thatd be fair if our turnout was close to our population. And, not to point it out, but ihope you understand that could mean hiding your gays. Or whatever else he decides to hate that day.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm having trouble with being kind to myself at the moment

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is a hell of a time I've picked to start transitioning, but here we are.

8 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Good luck, I hope even in this new scary environment you can live your best and truest life.

8 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well I pushed back my appointment for HRT in favor of getting a gun first. That seemed a good decision to me.

8 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

If you're not familiar you might look at https://www.pinkpistols.org/ and Operation Blazing Sword, they offer a lot of support to the LGBTQIA+ community and might be of some help to you.

8 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Thank you!

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My Republican neighbors can fuck right off. I'm done being the bigger person.

8 months ago | Likes 53 Dislikes 7

Yep

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I will never forgive my family and friends. They can also fuck off

8 months ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 2

It's gonna be a weird Thanksgiving. If there's any thank to give at all, that is.

8 months ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

Just. Don't go. Make one at home yourself with friends if able. My brother and I are running out of chances to see our grandma alive but my dad's side of the family is so trumped up we don't know if we can do it. So much hate at a holiday about love and giving

8 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

they don't need your help

8 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Nope. They can pull themselves up by their bootstraps when the sOsHuLiSm! net they voted against falls & their military pensions, Social Security, and SSDI gets yoinked out from under them. They can go back to work for minimum wage at 72 if they can find someone to hire them.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

then maybe they need our hurt

8 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Let’s go TRUMP! We love LGBTQ+!

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 15

Those two sentences are going against each other. They objectively can't work together.

8 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Your “objectivity” isn’t. I welcome you with open arms tho

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

Being pro trump means you CAN'T be pro-LGBTQ+ period. He's blatantly anti-Trans and his party has repeatedly made it clear gay people are next on the block. If you were really pro-LGBTQ+, you wouldn't support politicians that wanted to make them illegal.

8 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0