MorningAmbedo
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Dog tax: Ammy hopes this week has no stress for you and provides your belly with cheese.
Jeentbrain
#10 hit a bit too hard…
EverNotRelevant
#14 When a praise kink meets a humiliation fetish?
carbonar1
#44 If you try to knock me, you'll get mocked (Mocked)
I'll stir fry you in my wok (Wok)
Your knees'll start shaking and your fingers pop (Pop)
Like a pinch on the neck of Mr. Spock (Spock)
therearenologinnamesleft
#19 this sort of thing just makes it more and more unacceptable for people to express themselves emotionally when they are struggling. Emotions can be loud, unpleasant, inappropriate and alarming but making a loud noise is not the same as domestic violence and it demeans with the victims of domestic violence and men to equate the two.
DWRPIconDumper
#7 Have you tried Limerence? (If not, please don't.)
spaghettron3000
My wife just told me to buy tampons while I was scrolling through this dump, and I thought it said "mind flayer tampon"
IdaBelle
#29 Been there a couple of times. Fortunately found my way back to my true love.
anjeleyezjr
Being percieved is aggrivating. I hate when people look at me. It's like, I'm just out here, doing my thing. You are not part of it. Stop looking at my eyes. I can feel it. I'm respecting you by not looking into your eyes, please extend the same courtesy to me.
Eucrow
Thank you for the dump. Stole a few. In exchange, would you please give that sweety a big hug and many kisses for me?
MorningAmbedo
Will do!
aRabidGerbil
#28 Nah, in my experience, having ADHD means being good or bad at random things, regardless of which ones you're actually interested in.
duchessofawesome
#8 my mom gave them to my sisters because she said I am “too materialistic”. True story.
RoombaTheAssaultVacuum
#6 Apparently while we never hear it in games the lore states Link is a chatterbox and at times never shuts up, so yeah, there's that.
ArchMagos
#7 this is what I like to call Gomezing, because its what Gomez Addams does for Morticia.
MoonBoots92
#2 Normies
TheLovelessHummingbird
#29 yeah this keeps me going, I need this printed on my wall or something. Loneliness sucks a lot, but I don't have e mental breakdowns anymore so it's better, not great but better
TheLovelessHummingbird
#12 leave precious Amalka out of your filthy memes!
AmbassadorOfAndrew
#5 Honestly, not at all the same. TikTok videos can be short, but they can also be way longer, Vine’s 6 second limit was far stricter, and left no room for any waste, and seemed to inspire much more creativity.
Maybe it would have evolved with the times to be just as bad/toxic as TikTok if it were still around, but thankfully it died before it could be corrupted into something so vile.
IneverWantedToBeBorn
#2 call em normies
LordHosk
#1 A Salt Shaker... And a Pepper Shaker... Had a baby... They didn't adopt, Paprika was Mrs Peppers Biological child.
They then went on to have a cinnamon baby boy.
Mr Salt and Mrs Pepper have a more open relationship than Miles and Keiko
SOLARvsFACISM
Having just started re-watchijg DS9 last night, "Mr Salt and Mrs Pepper have a more open relationship than Miles and Keiko" took me on a googling journey. I don't remember this from when I saw it in its original run, but I look forward to my own interpretation when I get there during this viewing.
LordHosk
Its all 100% fan subtext... Maybe writer subtext, but if you watch it with that in mind, ITS ALL THERE.
LariCheltsy
#5
Bazzatron666
#19 I hate to "not all men" but being abusive is just as genderless as having poor emotional intelligence or coping mechanisms. Vilifying unknown people based on gender is bigotry, this kind of post further entrenches the notion that people identifying or assigned "man" are inherently dangerous - which is not only untrue, but so patently discriminatory it is literally illegal. You can't build systemic change with this hatred floating around in the wild.
LumpPump
preach it. every time we assign a HUMAN problem a gender we are being conservatives and reinforcing old gender stereotypes we were "supposed" to be fighting against instead of acknowledging that every person can be good and every person can be a sack of human cancer. not to mention anger doesnt always mean you want to hurt someone, it can be at a situation you cant control that has you frustrated to the point it became impossible to contain. not everyone has abuser motivations...
0RocketCat0
You see, checking a horse's teeth is an easy and accurate way to estimate it's age, so, the saying implies it's rude to check the teeth of a free horse, and, extending from that, that one shouldn't concern themselves with the actual value of a practical gift(at least while the gift-giver is there).
PrincessWasabi
Thank you!! I never knew this
KommanderKayriel
It's also because checking the quality of a free gift in front of the gift-giver is hella rude.
0RocketCat0
Yes, but not really. Look at this way: you needed a horse. Now you've got one. You're going to use it for it's intended purpose, regardless of it's value or ultimate longevity. Even when they're not around, why put on these airs? A horse is a horse. Of course. Of course.
NickRivieraMD
Unless it's full of invading soldiers.
ZettaiDullahan
Ooooh. I always thought it was a reference to feeding a free horse and the way people can feel like gifts are obligations.
Frozenbutt
That was white elephant gifts
0RocketCat0
Common misconception. That's a work horse. He earns his food. Checking the horse's teeth is also where we get the saying "long in the tooth" for being old.
EngorgedPhallus
#2 We do, we call them "Normies".
teardropivyyearofthetiger
I love Ammy
MorningAmbedo
She loves you too!
Whatdoyousaytoanicecupoftea
#2 Greg
raiker333
Gregbear
Lol. Not this one.
Whatdoyousaytoanicecupoftea
Well, obviously not...you're a bear
TheLiteraryMachine
*gasp* Is that Amaterasu, Origin of all that is Good and Mother to us all?
MorningAmbedo
It is indeed! https://media0.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPWE1NzM3M2U1N3ZwZmc5ZDhudGl2NzZvaXpjNGh4MXBqYnlxejdwdDV4NnFkMTJ6aiZlcD12MV9naWZzX3NlYXJjaCZjdD1n/Y9Qwrg4UaKQy1wFC9A/200w.webp
DoseOfScience
#2 Filthy Neurotyp is what I usually use.
eathotdog
Any adhd or autism related subreddit neurotypical (derogatory)
Lurch1911
I call them Healthies.
numlocks
#5 I dont get it?
givemeafreakingbreak
Is it maybe because Byte kinda replaced Vine, and Hook got his hand bitten off by a croc? 🐊 = 🪝
Grurim
TikTok (Tick Tock)
Grurim
TikTok (because hook gets chased by a crocodile that swallowed a clock *Tick Tock*)
Cbouch4rd
Tik Tok, which could be triggering if you're Captain Hook. Not profound, IMHO, just a bit of a reach as far as jokes go. I don't like my jokes to feel like a NY Times crossword puzzle clue.
emu314159127001
#19 umm, just no. I used to throw things at home, alone, when very stressed. People of any gender slam doors, drawers, and in the old days phones, when you had a landline with a ma Bell indestructible receiver. All of this without wanting to hit anyone. Does this person think slamming is a new thing now that hitting is "frowned upon?" That everyone was hitting willy nilly, but now men, and only men, apparently, slam?
Eucrow
While you were alone. Did you ever freak out and start slamming things in the presence of another? It's pretty fucking scary.
emu314159127001
I grew up with a lot of yelling. A single mother who was herself abused by her mother. And certainly people slamming things out of nowhere would be a bit alarming. I'm objecting to the sexist narrative that men are the primary domestic abusers, when stats will tell you it's by no means restricted to one gender. And my own family would indicate the same. I literally never encountered any men in the family who were violent or slammers. Can't say that about the women
TeddyBruhsvelt
I agree with this, I have never even considered being physically violent with anyone in any situation, it has simply never even crossed my mind. But do I occasionally take anger out in a slightly physical way with an inanimate object when I am frustrated? Definitely. So while I am sure there are some assholes out there who do it in the way that #19 describes I don't think its at all fair to state that as if its just a true rule
Frelioan
While the phrasing could use work it's still very valid. Only survivors of abusive situations can understand what "folding socks loudly" means.
My stepmom never slammed things unless she was pissed and wanting to make me suffer. Cabinets,doors, slamming her hands on the coffee table. Crashing the dishes. Shrieking.
People who repeatedly make loud noises on purpose, who kick and slam things, make me anxious even years later. I find I'm usually right to be wary unless they're on the spectrum.
emu314159127001
Yeah, my mother was terribly abused as a child by her mother, physically and verbally, and while she was able to avoid hitting us and didn't yell constantly, every couple of weeks she'd lash out.
I'm clearly reacting to the stupid "men want to hit you if they make a loud noise," when i didn't have any abusive men in my family, nor do i slam things at other people
AmbassadorOfAndrew
Is that really not a neurotypical behavior? As someone borderline on the spectrum, it often surprises me to find what behaviors of mine fall on which side of the line.
But also, to anyone like me who likes to vent frustration like that in a responsible manner, try kicking large unneeded cardboard boxes. Make sure there are no pets in/around them, unexpecting people within earshot, or delicate items too close, but very satisfying to hit, and it doesn’t matter how much you damage it.
Cbouch4rd
I think it's a classic case of A leading to B, but B doesn't always mean A. In logic it's calling affirming the consequent, I believe. Just because abusers slam things to communicate hostility doesn't mean all slamming communicates hostility.
Hoyboy76
Thanks to both @LumpPump and @Cbouch4rd for exploring the nuance here.
LumpPump
this, just cause you have been abused doesn't mean everyone is your abuser.(i do not deny why the abused's fear is vaild, but that does not mean everyone has the same motivations as your abuser did. trust me i have to keep that in mind too on bad days) hell thinking back on my life one day, i realized i picked my at least some part of my anger problems up from my abusers cause they are who raised me so that was the behavior my child eyes saw as "acceptable" in the home i was raised in. & its 1/
LumpPump
2/2 not an excuse but fuck un-training un-healthy responses to your emotions that you were taught since childhood is one hell of a fight later in life for some people.
Hoyboy76
Learning to allow anger (at age 49), but isn’t *wanting* to hit someone a valid state to have? I get that intimidating and threatening non-verbally is bad. But if someone is struggling to process anger, and it leaks out through slamming… if one later realized the slamming was negative and apologized…forgivable?
LumpPump
i think so& i dont see why not esp when ones does regret it &genuinely wants to apologize. even if a person affected by it cant find it in themselves to forgive one that did it, one can still forgive oneself by trying to figure out better outlets for it for the future. like recently i was given some advice to take it out on cardboard boxes. such a great idea, while i cant say if it would cut back on the noise made, at least it will help prevent damage to things youd rather not accidently damage
Festerboob
If someone isn't able to control their aggression around their partner, it's reasonable for that partner to be concerned.
emu314159127001
Sure. Partner, non gender specific. Do they think only men yell or hit? None of the men in my family. Can't say that about the women
LumpPump
as someone that struggles with anger all my life cause mental health problems since childhood. i wont deny it can be a valid concern but ITS NOT ONLY MEN THAT DO IT. depends on the situation/person, i have lashed out, not cause i wanted to hurt people but cause i felt helpless in situations i could not control/could not make better on my own & the emotions boiled over, often times i end up self harming cause of it. cause i didnt want to hurt someone or break something while rage took over 1/
LumpPump
2 and trust me im not saying the meme is wrong, there are for sure people out there like that, but it is wrong saying its only men. i've heard enough abusive mother stories and met a couple of the abusive mothers even, to know that, yeah humanity is made of shit dont matter the gender. any gender can turn into a huge POS and you know every time we try to make equality progress we take many steps backwards when we assign a problem to a single gender when we know its not a single gender problem